Chasing people around in life will be of no benefit to you in the long run. This is mostly because you can't make people be who you want them to be, people will always do what they truly want to do, deep down inside. What you can do is make extraordinary effort each day to be you, and to do what is in your heart, and work hard at it.
The people who deserve to be in your life will come in your life, and not only will they just be a part of your life like the people of your past, but they will stay in your life as well. Cut the slack out of your life, and let go of the people that are only bringing you down. There is no reason to be burdened continually by people who don't believe in you, when there are people out there that will.
I don't chase people when they walk away. It's not that they're not important. I just believe that if they want me in their life, they'll stay :). If your best friend pulls away, don't chase after her.Just get busy yourself. Now's the time to think about your interests, and start new activities.I had an experience lately.
The biggest reason why friends lose contact with each other, or avoid each other, is because they have nothing to gain from the other friend anymore! It’s strange, but it’s the bitter truth. Friends lose each other because there’s no reason to keep in touch anymore. You may subconsciously feel like you’re having a better time with someone else, which may lead to you ignoring an older best friend because, quite simply, one of you don’t need the other person anymore.
Friends drift apart because they no longer have anything to talk about, no longer have anything to share, and one of you started believing you’re better than the other.
Your life will get better when you realize it’s better to be alone than to chase people who don’t really care about you.Time alone can prove the worth of friendship. As time goes by we lose the the false ones and keep the best. True friends stay when all the rest are gone.
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